I'm so sorry to read your last post. It's one thing to think something is going on, another thing to have your worst fears come true. I always wanted my suspicions to be proved wrong. Unfortunately, that didn't happen very often.
Maybe this will be a wake up call for him. Maybe he will finally realize all he has to lose.
I'm saying a prayer for you.
Each experience in life has formed me, become part of me, made me stronger.