And you can do this? I can understand if H wants to tell me that he would rather have balogna instead of ham, but what if it's something really big, like he's spending the weekend with OW at a nice B&B out of town? How are we to receive that info calmly? If we're D, I could tolerate it, but not even separated?

Sorry, letting my own sitch take over here. Just curious how to put your suggestions to good use. Me


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