Excellant advice and thats what I am going to do. H has been very concerned about me the past two days. Told me yesterday OW was not in office. Never would have told me that before. Told me he is glad the "pressure" if off. H told me this morning in bed " I know its hard to beleive but the whole 6 months I was back home here I never had the intention of leaving you " I said I have difficult beleiving that because I do not understand" and H response was "I Know". Its strange but I do beleive H didnt want to leave me. He was not miserable home here the last 6 months. There were times when he seemed way off but I am sure he has been confused. I do beleive that H got "in too deep". I will believe this but I am going to be cautious and at the same time keep up my PMA and be the best wife and friend I can be.