My heart goes out to you,as I know this is a most difficult time. Sounds like you have serious thinking to do, but please don't try and make sense of something that is beyond sensible.
Just a suggestion, If you haven't already, you might get a hold of a copy of DB or DR.
If you haven't already read it....do.
This is a great place to find understanding and support, so keep coming here to vent and get comfort.
Go back to basics and look at his behavior instead of listening to his words. It might help you sort out what's going on with him.
Big hug to you tonight, somehow I felt like you need one. (((((((((((((((((KMF)))))))))))))))))))))
