Really weird. The thing going for us is H has accepted all the blame. We both recognize what the issues were in the marriage prior to his being so unhappy. Funny thing is now those things seem so easy to fix and work on the and the PA and EA with OW is the problem
Other thing I try to keep remembering is H did come home and clearly is with my 99% of the time and has gone out of his way to prove to me his whereabouts and make me feel more secure about where is is and what he is doing. H keeps professing his love and how much he doesnt want to lose me and the family. He just cant be lying about all this , maybe just confused. If he didnt work with OW I think things would have faded faster. Now I dont know what to think.
Just remember when your H is blaming you he is trying to reason with himself for his unacceptable actions.
YUk-
Sometimes I wish I went to the covent like my father wanted me too....
God rest his soul