Hi KMFLA I just read your post, and it's like reading a page out of one of my threads. I don't know what to advise you, other than to take your time and observe and remember the DB slogan, "when in doubt, do nothing".
I asked my H the exact same questions last week--if he loves me and wants our M, WHY does he do this and risk it all? He just hung his head and bawled and said he made a mistake (this was in regard to the trip w/ow 2 weeks ago Wednesday) Everything else he seems to blame on me.
