My H left about a year ago for PA with woman he works with. Started as a friendship and EA. You can check my thread H CAME HOME LAST NIGHT AFTER 6 MONTHS for background. After being S for 6 months he came home. After several months of ups and downs things were going great. He still works with OW and its difficult to accept some days but another job has not been option for us. I realize that he continues to have connection with OW because of work and keep reminding myself that he is home with my everynight. Here were I need help. We had a great Christmas, kids are happy things are going well. On New years eve spending time with friends my H leaves my side 2 minutes after midnight. I had sinking feeling in my stomach (which actually has been for a couple of days). Anyway I followed H and went to window to see him on the phone. Long story short, he was calling OW to wish Happy New Year. He denied at first but after major blow out finally the truth comes out. I have a problem with this and realize he still has feelings for OW. Then yesterday I find a reciept for gold jewelry which I didnt receive for Christmas. I think H bought her a present. I believe H is lying to me. He wants to start fresh, he wants to save his family, he says it wont happen again ( Has said that before since being home). I cant get past it. I am seriously considering calling it quits. What do I do. Forget it and move on?? Please help
