Hello to all I guess I'll just dive in head-first as I usually do. I am a HDH37 with a VERY LDW38. It started out near 20y ago with seemingly matched drives. After 5Y and 2nd child (S18,D14,D10) our freq. dropped to about once a month. By 8 or 9y it was bi-annual(I still remember the nite my D10 was made). By 14Y it was annual or so. Since 16y it has only been once and was give on my part only, that was 2Y ago(We were going to try to get into a schedule but she opted out) . She is a wonderful woman otherwise and I do think our attachment is love. We have been on a rollercoaster for many years and I am nearing my time to get off the ride. She is reading the SSM book but has already stated it is just another ploy of mine to get her to ML. We have been openly disscussing our situ for about 6Y which has kept up my hopes of our mutual happiness although the past year she is sick of talking about the "S" word. I guess my question is it worth investing more unfulfilled time waiting for her to come around,
I sure you'll need more info so ask away and I'll reply.
PS The situation with SEVENS reminds me of my own, he should ask his W if her interests might be for her own gender. I asked my W and she wasn't sure at first but decided she is straight.
