citizen_cat wrote {{When TSSM arrives I am going to read it and then if I have to I will follow my husband around the house READING IT ALOUD if I have to!}}

Leigh, please do not do this! This will come across to your H as pushy, needy, desperat, I want, I want attitude from you. Read the book for yourself first.

During WWII, the British broke the German code. When the British read the German code that the Germans were sending a submarine to a certain location, the British did not send a destroyer to sink the German sub. Instead, the British just happened to send a search plane in the general area of the German sub.

The point of this story is, if you are too direct, your H may retreat.
Read the book SSM and read Divorce Remedy. The 2 books will give you ammunition to change the R you have.

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Have to to attend to other things that just poped up. Sorry.

OG Lou just a normal guy.