I find it kind of scary that you thought my list was hard to meet. I see you as a women that has really worked hard to improve things, you are light years ahead of my own wife, and yet my list was even hard for you. If it is hard for you, then it will probably look impossible to my wife.
I have had some conversations with my wife. I am trying to start much smaller. Right now we are working to be "Friends". But let's say we worked on Kissing. She does not like to kiss me. Other then pecks on the cheek, no other kissing in last 3 years. And even when I asked for her kisses, it was like "Oh, OK." and then a quick impassionate closed mouth kiss. So how can I change that so she will kiss me with genuine passion. I don't want anything from her that is "FORCED", forced effort SUCKS BIG TIME. How do you ever get to the point where the LD "WANTS" to do these things. What can I change that will really make her want to change things?
