Quote: Think carefully, Ce, is a sexually confident W what you want? What kind of changes do you think you'd make to have a M with such a gorgeous woman?
This is a good point, CN. The immediate thought I had when I read this was "AH,ha maybe that's why my H started being nicer in reaction to my increased sexual confidence, even though he didn't start being more sexual in response. He knew he had to do something to keep the relationship in balance.". I'm assuming that in a nice way you're asking CeMar "If your W suddenly became chock-full of sexual confidence and drive, why in the hell would she choose to stay married to you? What would you do to keep this woman in your life?". This thought actually makes me feel like I'm on the right track with my own situation because I really am trying to do everything in my marriage that I would do in order to keep a super-sex-confident version of my H content in the relationship (okay,okay I admit that super-sex H might have gotten waffles more often than scrambled eggs for breakfast this week, but that would be the direct result of an early morning sex energy buzz.).
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
