Quote: I do think it is quite a jump for her to make all at once, so you will HAVE to accept that this (fixing an SSM) is a process and not something that your spouse just DOES. If she did, you wouldn't believe it anyway
HP, Thank you for putting into words what I meant by "tall order". It is not unreasonable for Cemar to want any and all of the things on his list. I do think that they will take time to accomplish, much like your wieghtlifting analogy.
Cemar, Do you think you would be happy if your W started doing all the things on your list out of the blue? I know that your initial answer would be a resounding, "YES!!!", but hang with me a second. These are the behaviors of a sexually confident W. Think carefully, Ce, is a sexually confident W what you want? What kind of changes do you think you'd make to have a M with such a gorgeous woman?
I don't mind the sun sometime
The images it shows
I can taste you on my lips
And smell you in my clothes
Cinnamon and Sugar
And softly spoken lies
You never know just how you look
Through someone elses eyes
BHS-"Pepper"
