I suppose I came across as rather harsh. My point, which perhaps I missed a bit, was that for someone who is not meeting any of the items on that list, the list would appear to be a set of impossible demands. I'm sure we'd all like to eventually have a similar list fulfilled. It doesn't happen overnight, and in fact you may never have all the items checked off. It takes a lot of work and compromise, and as part of the compromise you may find that some of the items are asking too much. This is something you absolutely have to take one step at a time, and it will require giving as well as taking. From what CeMar has posted in the past several months, it appears that he is demanding his W change, but he is unwilling to put in the necessary effort himself. Until he has a change in attitude, he's stuck playing Eeyore.
