I agree that most of the things on the list to me aren't unreasonable and CeMar...thanks for putting the list in writing for us and yourself.
Now what is it you are willing to do (meeting her love languages) that will help encourage her to begin knocking things off your list? Once again reminding you...not things you think she should like/need...but the things she really does.
I'm sorry I hate to be repetitive, but have you had that really serious HOM heart-to-heart talk yet? You may have mentioned before if you had, but I don't remember seeing it.
Without getting the communication down between the two of you, you are going to have a very hard time getting your list checked off.
