Frankly, I don't think CeMar's list is a tall order. Remember, he was asked by GEL to create a list of specifics. He's not saying that he'd be unhappy if one or two of the items weren't totally fulfilled. A lot of the stuff is behavior one should expect from their spouse, e.g. telling him that she loves him, holding hands, kissing. My W does this, although I haven't gotten passionate kissing in ages.
I think he did a good job in answering GEL's request. I would have somewhat of the same list, with the following modifications: 2) have sex at least once a week. 9) BJs? I would like her to at least try...and let me try to do her as well.
Hairdog, who salutes CeMar for a great response to GEL.
