What should I do?

[cinemanymph]

1) I want her to kis me when we wake up, when we go to bed, and maybe meet me at the door after work. Some kisses can be pecks, some should linger, some should be "French".
2) Have sex at least 3x a week, if not more.
3) Flirt with me.
4) Cuiddle with me.
5) Hold hands IN PUBLIC.
6) When we are with other people, I want her to sit by me, to TOUCH me, to caress me.
7) Tell me she loves me.
8) Come to bed NAKED with me, rather then completely covered up.
9) Give me BJ's to completion. She now finds oral sex digusting, except for her.
10) Express an interest in my body! I work hard on it!

That's a tall order, Cemar. Have you made up a similar list of things you are willing to do for your W to encourage such changes?