My wife never complains about my size. I do think about it occasionally since I heard long ago that her last love was huge. My wife never complains.
As for the sex, I could actually have sex far more then we do which is about 10 times a year. My wife is "Willing" to have sex. Willingness to have sex is not enough anymore. It actually DEGRADES me to accept sex from someone that really has no desire for it. I want sex with someone that actually wants to please me for a change. It's almost like I use her for a masterbation toy. Afterall, how can I continue to pursue an activity with someone that does not share the same interest level in that activity. Let's face it, a LDW eventually RUINS the sexual experience for the man. I want a LOVER, not a 'willing' partner. The question becomes, how do LDW ever become lovers? I just can't see how they can. And if a married couple is not lovers, then what is the point of their marriage?