I'm willing to help clean and buy food because...I'm the perfect man??
I'm not trying to accomplish anything other than maintain my self-respect. I just won't ML to a W that treats me the way she does. That doesn't mean I don't have responsibilities around the house or will refuse to act in a cordial way toward her.
Are you suggesting that I only help or be nice to her if I get sufficient nookie? Wow, THAT's the way it ought to be!
I don't think I'm using sex as a weapon. I'm just refusing to violate my integrity to be intimate under the present circumstances. Is that a bad thing? As I recall, it's pretty close to PM principles.
