I absolutely don't add to her stress! I am so laid back about what happens that you sometimes have to poke me to see if I'm alive. I never complain about the condition of the house or anything else for that matter. (The one exception used to be complaining about not having sex.) I'm the one cautioning her about taking on more, suggesting we eat out, and offering to hire someone to do what she's stressing out over.

There's no point in telling her that IF she doesn't get a grip then I'll fall out of love with her. I've already told her that it's gone too far for me. The best I can do is HOM, walk away while she blows, and hope she doesn't follow me to continue.

The "unconditional love" comment made me laugh. That's undoubtedly her favorite phrase/accusation. She says my love for her is SOOO conditional and hates it when I respond, "Yeah...and?"

There once was a man from Nantucket who M my W and went LD.