Sally, I hope everything turned out ok with your little boy being there alone today.
I wanted you to know that this is NOT about your body.
Your H likes the attention and admiration of the young ladies there. He is convincing himself that he deserves this, for whatever reason. This is all about him.
Have you ever been to a club? The girls are not all that attractive, at least in my area. It has to be a VERY upscale place in order for them to be able to snare in any decent looking girls. The ones around here are skinny desperate looking creatures and it amazes me that people pay for that.
At any rate, please please do not make his idiotic choices about you. He is trying to fill a void in his soul by lapping up their attention.
There is no doubt in my mind that you are beautiful, inside and out. Your figure is just fine and I'm sure it has its battle scars from kids and life--just as mine does.
Stand proud, Sally. You did the right thing by letting him know you were there.
