Quote: Sally... I see where you are at now. Sometimes it does take an eye-opening experience to jar our spouses back to reality. I know my own brand of "tough love" ( after reading PM) helped to waken up my H.
So take his birthday cake and you know what you should do...wait, wait...that's not the right advice, lol.
Hugs,
IHJ
LOL...thanks for understanding...still can't figure out the right answer to this.
I just want to say too, how much this board has really helped me. I can't imagine where I would be without having ya'all to bounce ideas off of. Probably the looney bin.
Slowly all the roles we act out become our Identity,
And in the end we are what we pretend to be.
-Jerry Cantrell
