I am sure that I have posted this before, but I don't remember your answer.
Since you are talking separation, have you read "Love Must Be Tough" by Dobson? The book deals mostly with affairs, but it equally applies to addictions and other aberrant behaviors in marriage. The principles contained therein specifically deal with separation as a catalyst for change in a broken marriage. It is one of the few written works that I think properly deal with separation.
I think the book is especially applicable to your situation.
I am glad that you are hanging in there. I believe that your husband will really appreciate your strength one day.
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
