What will likely happen if I confront him without real proof.
He will deny
OR
He will tell me it's none of my business.
It will put him on the defensive and may even cause him to go more.
I know it will cause us to go several steps backwards in the progress we've made.
But I do need to know if it's a regular thing. I doubt confronting him will tell me that though.
If I don't confront him, he will likely continue to go but things will be much smoother and give me time to work on other issues.
and I'll continue to lie to myself.
We still have huge money issues too.
If I don't confront him though, more than likely I will continue to get angrier and angrier and whether or not I say anything, THAT will hurt our progress.
Slowly all the roles we act out become our Identity,
And in the end we are what we pretend to be.
-Jerry Cantrell
