Quote: Honey, I don't know how to explain it except to say that if I confront him about the money, then he wins. He is very passive aggressive. He is also aware of what a stupid thing he did, whether or not he will ever actually admit it to me.
Isn't this also you being passive aggressive. How does he win, that doesn't make any sense to me on this particular issue. I mean, he DID incur the debt...true not all of it may have been at the strip club, but both of you know that some of it was and that it wouldn't be that high if he hadn't used it there.
