Quote: -------------- I, on the other hand, am emotionally needy at this point because of other stuff in the past year and I need ANY kind of affection and I'm settling for sex, anytime, anywhere... --------------
So, stop with the grabby/needy thing. Add some mystery and distance to your interaction. Let him work to get you instead of the current dynamic. You have what he needs, not the reciprocal.
I don't care what your butt looks like, it is the butt he wants more than any 21 year old, whether he knows it or not. It is your attitude that matters. Turn the whole thing around on him. Dress hot and push him away when he makes advances. He doesn't get to touch (much) in a strip club, but you don't have to act like a stripper to keep him at arms length and add some mystery to your love play :-)
Exude confidence whether or not you feel it. The fact is, you are a hell of a woman. Look at what you have worked through. It takes a lot more character to survive what you have been through than it does to ogle some stripper's ass. You already have the real goods. It is time to be proud of it. You show him a real woman.
There are a lot of guys that would drag chains across cut glass while barefoot to get a chance at a real woman like you. Don't you dare sell yourself short. Your dorky boy needs to get his mind right. If he won't, remind him where the door is.
-NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
