Oh how I know you have needs and compromise to satisfy them. Congratulations on successfully competing with the 20 somethings!
I have "presented" myself to H to try to work something out. At least your H knows what to do when. Mine made it obvious that the time I spent trying was totally wasted.
Just don't hurt yourself emotionally Sexy play and tease and a bit PT isnt bad *if* there is 2 sided play. IF however, you want him to make love to YOU and not to his ML crisis maybe you should do as Lou suggested, get him to do what you want in the manner you wish.
Pity me that the heart is slow to learn
What the swift mind beholds at every turn.
Edna St. Vincent Millay
