MustangSally how about sex the way you like to do it considering wat H will do with you.
For example if you like to be on top, put a little lube on him and sit on the pole (erection) and move in motions that you like. Stop trying to please your H so much. Do it a couple of times and see how it goes. Please yourself more. I know this is too simple of a solution most of the time.
In my case I ask W what she would like. She is an "I don't know" person, so I do mostly what I like within her limited preferences. I used to feel bad, but am feeling less bad as time goes on. If she can not think of anything she likes, well I did ask.
