Oooo - this is tough. My ex used to really want the whole slutty deal all the time and it was degrading. In his case, he needed the extra stim because he was addicted to perscription drugs. If things weren't SUPERHOT then he had trouble getting off. I realize that this isn't the case for you but I am thinking that my X took the scripts in part because he couldn't handle his emotions - he self medicated his Bipolar D/O. Does your H have any issues with Depression or Anxiety? What is the deal with the Strip Clubs? I mean I'm not sure I could ante up with sex if my H appeared to have a little side thing with strippers. I am not puritanial - I don't really care if once a year the X goes to one of those with a bachelor party or somehting.
