Sportster, thatnk you so much for your response. I agree with everything you said! The funny thing is with the girl involved, I know he's not buying her anything because he is completly indebt from all of this. And I don't feel a bit sorry for him because he wanted this. I left with the clothes on my backa nd borrowed money form my family to rent an apartment, buy used furniture, etc. He was left with the mortgage, car payment, credit card bills, etc and I think it;s funny because on top of all that he will have to pay 600.00 a month in child support and if he doesn't agree to the D settlement my lawyer proposed, I will also be entitled to alimony. He thinks he has it bad now...Anyway, I have been doing really good this week. My PMA is high for some reason (yeah!) Thanks again and have a great week!