Hi everyone. I have been posting on the seperated forum but felt i would also benefit from this forum. My H and I have seperated for the second time in 3 years. H-32, I am 29, S5,D4, married 12 years, together 14. Last time he was gone for 5 months and had OW. Things were great for the first year he was back and starting going back to the way things were and we are seperated again. The D papers have been filed. He is adamant that he doesn't want to work things out this time. He states he came back last time and he's not doing it again. Found out he has OW again. This time she is a 20 year old girl from work (last one was from work too-he works at a factory.) This girl was married but her H left her when he found out, too. I could really use some advice quickly because the D is right around the corner. Thanks!
