I'm going to 2nd your view on adoption. I know many, many people would prefer to have a child of their own making...I did and I wouldn't trade the experience. I think that's also why many women want to "have a child" rather than adopt...the experience is amazing.
But...being as that I am an adopted child I'm whole-heartedly for that as well. I wouldn't trade my family for ANYTHING! I know how special & lucky I am to have been adopted into them. As an adopted child there is no question that yes, you were wanted :-)
