Caro wrote {{I think I got ML muddled up with trying to conceive and when it doesn't happen (conception),}}
In my favorite aunts jewish voice, So, you think you are only a baby machine? What about your H, or is he only the sperm doner? He has feelings too.
Maybe you will get PG if you quit trying so hard. How many stories have you heard that once a childless couple adopt, the W gets PG. It sounds like having your own child is very important to you and I empathise with your need to have your own child. That is the way mother nature planned it.
BTW, my W is trying to convince me ML is only for making babies. Sucks, big time. So unless your H can take or leave ML do you want to damage the M? Most likely your H loves you regardless of the PG status. Sorry if I an off track. I do not intend to be harsh to you.
Some people ML and get PG but do not want a child. Some people ML and want a child but do not get PG. How Mother Nature acts is beyond our control.
