Hi! I've been married for 2 years and with my H for 5. We used to have a lot of sex but I'm now LD while H remains HD. I've nearly finished reading The Sex Starved Marriage book and can see clearly that I need to make some changes. I also acknowledge why I need to do something to make my marriage work better but I simply cannot bring myself to make the first move sexually. Yesterday I made up my mind to do something but then I didn't. Why is this? Why am I so stuck and stubborn? I like sex when I get going but I don't want the foreplay. Any ideas, anyone?