That was my H in the "I wanna be different" convo.
He absolutely PRIDES himself on this facet of his personality. Funny, but I didn't notice it when we were dating!!!!!!!!!!! Then he was complimentary, sexy, raved about my body, blah blah. So I really don't get it. If I ask him, What is it about me that turns you on? then he will list what he likes. But he never volunteers it and thinks it lessens him as a person to do so.
I don't know about him being fond of my breasts. Most of his comments are carefully crafted so that they straddle the neutral line. That way I won't get the wrong impression and think he's hitting on me, LOL!
Ah, like I said, he's getting a lot better. The funny thing about him is this: He compliments my cooking, my mothering skills, my sewing skills..I mean a day does not go by that he doesn't make a nice comment about me in some fashion. He is very kind in this regard. But to make a romantic or sexy comment just stops him in his tracks. Either he doesn't think it, so naturally doesn't say it; he thinks I am not worthy of a compliment; or he doesn't feel comfy saying it out loud. He is sortof like the guy who's wife says, You never say "I love you" and he replies, I told you I loved you when we got married--if it ever changes, I'll let you know.
