I know how it is to try to find the motivation. Lately, a lot of my motivation comes from a little of the "I'll show him that rat b*stard." My H doesn't make positive body statments or negative ones. If pressed he would say that I have a nice *ss but on a daily basis he absolutely does not. He doesn't even say "You look nice." He says, "Thats a nice dress." I guess that means he likes how it looks.
He prides himself about not being shallow about appearance and being different from other men. I saw a conversation about this somewhere - I guess guys who pride themselves on this kind of thing have trained themselves not to notice "female attributes" even those of their wife very much. If your H comments that much on your breasts then I would guess that he is rather fond of them. Nursing bras are just awful - have you found any pretty ones? There are a few out there but not many. I wish VS made a line of maternity/nursing lingerie.
