I have it mostly on my breasts right now so I suppose there's no hope for them. My stomach is still shrinking so at least I could add some muscle underneath that. H asked the other night why my breasts had shrunk so much (he sure notices everything about them for someone who is "immune" to them) and I told him that's just the way it is with pregnancy and breastfeeding--at least for me. After the baby settles into a predictable nursing pattern, say, 3 months or so they go back to a normal-to-large size. He is doing REALLY good with his changes he has made so I don't want to diss him but I would SO appreciate it if his bodily comments were more often positive than negative or neutral. He tells me that I am losing weight all the time so I suppose I need to reframe that statement in my mind from a "purely factual" one to a compliment. "You're getting smaller!" is not necessarily a compliment to me, but perhaps that is how he means it.
Thanks for the advice; I'll check out what Oprah has to say.
P.S. The Pilates tape is still sitting right where it was...sigh. I need to motivate myself!!
