GGB - Congrats on the little fella. We have 2 foster sons in the house, my bio son, my bio daughter and or bio daughter. Sounds even but the former fosters and the kids we mentor are all boys so we are testosterone heavy as well.
I know how your wife feels about the belly. I'm not sure to what degree my skin will snap back but I'm trying to get rid of the subcutaneous fat and build the muscles and see. I would support your W in getting a tummy tuck if it helped her feel better about herself. It would need to be after getting finished with pregnancies and after seeing how much diet and exercise could do to get the best result. Anywhooo - in the end that has to be motivated by her anyway.
HP - luck with the Pilates - I like it because you don't need a bunch of equipment, it uses minimal space and you can do it without shoes on. I hate anything that I have to gather a bunch of equipment or push furniture out of the way for. Are you a member of a gym? The plus there is the daycare. When I was a SAHM I liked having a gym membership. Now, I don't feel that I get enough time with the kids as it is. Karen
