Quote: I've been reading the Conway MLC books, and they emphasize the importance of being supportive and admiring and forgiving and patient w/this mlc junk while at the same time working on areas of your own life that need strengthening. They say the odds are good if "patience" can be found...several other authors say the same thing....I guess I'm kinda of once again at that "give me a sign lord" point....
A sign would be SOOOOO useful! Then we could either hang in there knowing it is going somehwere, or give up and move on. It's wondering whether your patience is going to get you anywhere that is so maddening!
Livnlearn
(waitng for all those people to write in about how DBing is for yourself, not to get your spouse back..... but admit it, it does cross our minds sometimes )
"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates
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