No whacks here, I know this is hard. I understand completely why this stuff bothers you.
Quote: Is H setting me up for being gone on Fridays now??????
If he's gone, can you be busy on Fridays? Remember, he seems to respond when you go out and get a life!!
Quote: ow's vehicle is parked right next to H's...
Ew, ew, ew....
Okay, granted, gross. But just because it was for that reason before, doesn't mean it is now. (I have this problem, too. )
Quote: but maybe it's just throw me off track.
That just wouldn't make sense. Most of these guys just pull waaaaay back if they really don't want to be with you.
Remember, he is going to weeble wobble back and forth for awhile. But is sounds like he more "with" you than "with" her. Make sense?
In all honesty, the best thing you can do--for your sitch and for yourself--is to get a life. I know your son is an issue. But can he stay with his dad or friends or something? I see nothing wrong with saying "Hey, I'm going to a retreat/spa/out of town this weekend, can you watch S?"
I understand completely why this stuff bothers you.
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