I am still working on the GAL technique, don't want to forget that. I signed up for a weight loss class at my fitness center on Friday, it meets tonight, so I will have to run back in if I get into it. it was full when I got a chance to sign up,so I have to call and double check.
but, interestingly, I didnt mention it to H until Saturday evening (slipped my mind) and I was surprised to see a look of surprised and even astonishment cross his face...strange.
H seems to be very inquisitive about phone calls I get any more...yesterday was interesting in that respect.
I got a call from my alma mater for updating the alumni directory...H was in and out of the room several times asking who it was...he asked if I was getting another credit card when I hung up (maybe that's what he was worried about)...
Then yesterday evening I got a phone call asking if I would be interested in considering a career change and coming for a preliminary job interview...now this is weird and I'm skeptical because I've not been seriously persuing such a change, but considering it and praying for guidance. I talked with the person for a while, said I would think about it & let her know about the interview...I might consider at leas that... H was very curious about that phone call, asked several questions with big eyes. wanted to know when the interview would be, etc.. This morning he said something about "so opportunity is coming knocking" and I said "I don't know, I'm quite skeptical, but I figure it's probably worth at least checking out, match my salary and I'm theirs" and he started worrying about my retirement plan, etc.....
weird response, but fate timed that one well for me I think, he has to at least wonder a teensy bit about me getting phone calls about job changes...If the situation were reversed, I'd be wondering what the heck he was up to and not telling me about.