Quote: OH...something else just hit me...before I left for work this morning, he came upstairs to tell me "I warmed your car up"...I told him "thank you so much for doing that, I really appreciate it"...the poor guy really is a bottomless pit for affirmation, and I've not seen how bottomless until now. I mean, he wouldn't have come into the house and all the way upstairs if he hadnt wanted the acknowledge ment, right? hmmmmmmmmmmmmm
How do you think your actions might change if instead of viewing h as a "bottomless pit for affirmation" you viewed him as someone for whom WOAs were of primary importance and critical to feeling loved?
Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.
