I was just over in the other building, and now I see on the "public" leave calendar that this coming Friday ow is taking vacation, and of course H is off that day...how much is any one willing to wager they plan to spend the morning together since he didnt go to her place (or maybe he did) on New years day?
Over the weekend, I told H several times that I was not going to live like this for the rest of my life, and H would start ranting and raving that he wasnt going to live like this either, with me not trusting him and throwing it up to him over and over again. I see that as a form of control as well. I did tell H when he was ranting and raving about me never trusting him and having to live with this for the rest of his life that there were things he could do, as suggested in the book "not just friends" that would take care of it....that for starters he needed to email her that it was over and cc it to me or make a phone call to that effect while I was in the room. He didnt answer.
this whole damn mess is getting so old. and of course money is a big issue.
