Hi Pam... I think the book may give me some help, havent gotten very far yet,but so far it talks about that it does take 5 years (ick) to get through, and I found it interesting that they quote some research that indicates that "oldest" often have the worst time/strongest symptoms, which i think makes sense, gien that they grow up in the leader/caregive role; makes sense then that their rebellion would be stronger.
It's even colder here today, I heard on the radio the wind chill is 7 below. I just know I don't like it!