Sorry I missed you today. Honey, you are doing great! You just keep GAL and watch things fall into place.
Quote: H is back to initiating ML....don't have a clue why he was "out of it" or why he's back...????
You don't need to have a clue...just enjoy it to the fullest when it happens and , hmmmmm, take a breather and rest up for the next time when it doesn't. How's that? Sometimes we just waste too much precious time trying to figure out the "why's" of a situation. Take some time (especially the holidays) to just go with the flow.
Quote: So I have made a concentrated effort to be "backed off"....actually I was gone a good deal of the weekend trying to finish the christmas shopping I've let go...so I was home very little. H got home from doing xmas shopping on Friday early in the afternoon, made a big point of telling me he was home as he'd said he would be...and sometime that day mentioned that he hadnt gone the Friday before because he knew it would upset me (ow was gone to a workshop; H was at home)...I never made any mention of ow/workshop, but obviously H knew without me saying that I knew and that it would be on my mind.
Do you see how these two things could be linked? You're backing off and GAL. He's noticing, getting a little nervous and then saying something that he thinks will please you. This is positive. Do you see the value in GAL? It has value not only for you but for your marriage too!
As for your hair.....I get mine done every 6 weeks like clockwork! It is something that I do just for me. I will never give that up. How many things do you do that are just for you Deb? Probably not many. If you enjoyed it....then by all means keep doing it!
This week is very hectic for me but I will try to check in with you tomorrow. PLEASE keep up the excellent work!
How's that? Sometimes we just waste too much precious time trying to figure out the "why's" of a situation. Take some time (especially the holidays) to just go with the flow.