Deb - I'm doing good, thanks! I'll update soon, maybe tomorrow on my own thread.
That is great that you did the hair. As far as being true to yourself - I think it's nice to let a guy open the door, and I let H hold bags if he really wants to (well, sometimes anyway). But I'd never let him do everything, even if he wanted to. I think that your H would grow weary quickly if he was with OW if she was that needy. I would NOT become a complete damsel in distress for a man. Did you see the film Ever After? She didn't need rescuing, and I don't think that most men want a clingy, needy female. I think most men like to feel they are protecting their woman, taking care of her to some degree - but a clingy woman would suck the life blood out of them.
Just be yourself. If your H wants to do something nice for you, that is great - but don't have him do EVERYTHING for you. Be your own woman.
