H is just really weird and grumpy and I think back to seeing ow....I did talk w/db coach on the phone and she suggested trying to do something "crazy" every now and then....I am SO predictable, so I think H probably still sees ow a little when I take S to religion class. tonight the schedule is up in the air because I'm bringing S to a friends party instead of his usual class...it will last about 1/2 hour longer, I thought I could go home, but now I'm thinking I'll leave the house before H gets home (I usually see him for 20 minutes or so) and just leave a note that said I had some stuff come up to do so I'll see him later this evening after the kids' party......
