I will tell you this about changing your relationship. No matter what your approach, it is full of hard work and tough situations. It is also worthwhile.
You BOTH need to read the book.
Don't expect easy. That rarely happens.
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.