I have to point something out here...someone else may bust my chops for it...but here goes...
Quote: H throws himself onto the floor in a screaming fit, not to mention yelling at the kids, and me....And yet, here I am, thinking, he's almost been in a good mood the past few days, maybe I should give him a chance again.
You do realize that many abused women fall into this same pattern don't you? His behavior has been very abusive. Now I'm not saying walk out the door, or move into another room...although I do agree with changing your behavior and perhaps not doing everything you have been for him. But recognize the fact that you're falling into a pattern here. Many abused people continue to take their spouse back...because they continue to see glimpses of the person they know they can be.
I know what you are going through is a tough thing to endure (((HUGS))).
Hang in there! Oh and my S1 still has not had a chance to play in any snow...what a bummer! GEL