Ok, I was wondering why noone commented on this...thought I had posted this last night, apparently it got lost some where...

My C suggested last night that one way to get H's attention would be to move into the guest room.

As usual, I'm having trouble making up my mind on this one , thought I'd ask your advice. Part of me thinks this is sort of just 'escaping', part of me relishes the thought of not having to 'worry' about H being affectionate in the morning, underlines that I'm serious about this???

Advice, please??? Thanks.