I hope you know that i meant to let him know what he is missing, not turn him on :-)
As for getting over the resentment, his recognizing the problem and doing something about it would take care of that.
If he doesn't step up, then you will eventually get to a place where it, and he, no longer matter to you. That will also take care of most of the resentment as apathy is the great resentment killer.
I am hoping for a more equitable solution to the issues facing your situation.
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
